In hindsight escorts seem like they are the easiest way for what i "need" when i go bar hopping, and likely cost less. A good follow up post would be how to go about hiring an escort while avoiding undercover cop bitches.
You write that and a week from now I'll have a good FR to offer up. But let us not forget that she is a woman, too. Relationships are sex in exchange for time, resources , and commitment, the definition of prostitution. The only difference between the lady of the night and the virgin walking down the aisle, is the price she has set for pussy.
Biggest benefit for me is it gets rid of foggy brain. Clears my mind so much that I can think straight and decide exactly beyond sex what I would want a woman for. This is a great way of putting it. After I have relieved any sexual frustrations, my mind is more clear and often I find the plating game or one night stand searches to be a tedious bore.
The post-orgasmic period when a man's thoughts are no longer impaired by his sexual drive; he is thus likened to a "sage" of clear mind. When i was younger i didn't really like the idea of escorts, mainly because i lived in a place where there was this condo used by escorts and they were ugly, fat and if anyone was to get paid it should be me, i'd be doing them a favor. Anyway i always told myself i'd try one day, maybe when i have enough cash i could afford a top one.
Until then there would be no way i'd try those who usually announce at the newspapers or sleazy websites. Then i discovered this forum, which pretty much made reviews of all the escorst in my countriy and continent too europe they would rate them from blowjobs how good were they if they did it au nauturele or rubberd up if they did anal, kiss on the mouth, the whole GFE or PSE, i was like a little kid walking into a candy store, for the first time i knew what was coming to me from the reviews made by my fellow men.
From street hookers, tho those who advirtesed on newspappers and even the top ones, they most of them where there, I started filtering, seeing who had the best reviews, those that would kiss on the mouth, i wanted the whole gfe, i could do without anal and blowjob. So i found one, a good one, black girl with a nice round butt, i was never much of an ass man, but if there was an ass capable of converting me that was it.
So now every 3 to 4 months i have a session like that, not with the same girl, there's so much to sample from that it would be a waste.
But i'd be lying if i said i didn't come back for some more of that juicy tits. Has anyone tried walking up to strangers who are broke as shit, let them know you have money then just immediately ask them to come over? Present yourself as a betabucks that's ready to throw money on them if they come over and suck your dick. You make it clear you have money, offer for them to come over and nothing else and if they say no then you walk away.
I've honestly been heavily on the fence about this for some time, but I think this post has made me seriously consider hiring an escort for the first time.
Yeah, expect a steep learning curve. It takes a while to get a feel for the business and to weed out the undesirable places just from the ads and talking to people on the phone get a burner phone if you are leery about your real number, even though I have always used my real number.
You might not even know yourself as well as you think you do, and the particular cities and types of girls that you want to frequent. Never be afraid to just walk away. I have been led into rooms with a girl, felt something a little off, or was underwhelmed by her, and just walked away. Be very quick to assess the situation and the girls because they want you to pay as soon as possible to lock in the money; and, you do not want to have to ask for it back because that is potential drama and at worst trouble.
But perhaps a face-saving technique for that establishment, if you want to return someday, is to fake-check your wallet and say that you forgot to get cash or something similar. Take a quick shower before and after and make sure she does for both incalls and outcalls. Bring your own tiny throwaway bar of soap if it makes you feel better. Outcalls can be dangerous because now people know where you live or are staying at if it's a hotel. Incalls are preferable because then you can get lineups.
Legally, you are not at your home, so potentially less culpable. I mean, you're just a guy getting a massage at someones house, right? They sure as fuck aren't going to throw themselves under the bus at their own establishment now are they?
They need to keep business smooth to maximize profits. Don't be a dick unnecessarily because you want the best chemistry possible for you and her--you want the best experience possible, so don't self-sabotage the moment. Always let only her touch the condom, take it off after finishing and dispose of it. That is standard practice. If you pay for an hour, then expect 50 minutes. If you paid for a half hour, then expect minutes.
An agency I use had one girl with great reviews. I make an appointment and find out that she's easily 10 years older than her stated age, her conversation is lackluster, and the sex was boring. Yes, conversation is part of the experience to loosen up both parties. I left a terrible but true review as a "your mileage may vary" warning only to find out that the next few reviews of her said the same thing I did - distant, cold, checked-out, finished.
My personal preference is to never do this. There is always a higher price that I'm willing to save when I can go to her place and leave whenever necessary. Russian men are finished with girls by age 24 and they are still by American standards. I was told this explicitly by a Russian escort who was an 8 in my book.
It depends on where you are. If you are in a first-tier or second tier city, then the pigs are not as much of an issue. I find this to be true. There are other places that are just as good as big cities, but I'll let others figure that out for themselves. It's like an adventure. It's possible that I have used nearly all of them in the US. I've never had any legal troubles. Went to a massage parlor a few months ago a banged this little latina with a fake butt. Lost my boner cause her face just wasn't that attractive.
She didn't speak any english either. It just felt dead to me. Like, if I could have talked to the girl for 20 minutes to get to know here and flirt and get seduced, I would have probably enjoyed it more.
I also don't like not being able to kiss them. That's kind of my favorite part. Kissing's more intimate than sex to me. Without that I don't feel any connection and I honestly don't feel like I got my money's worth. Whenever you feel like youre going crazy or getting to stressed, check to see when the last time you got laid was. This is amazing man. Nowadays, these were what i was thinking. Instead spending time, "playing game" and spending money; why we don't go and spend money only?
I will probably do this. Unfortunately, escorts are illegal in the USA and you can get into a lot of trouble for seeing them. Noted, but they are not illegal everywhere, and I should not need to say that I am arguing for their use in any particular country. True, I just wanted to let guys know that they could face legal troubles if they are Americans and seeing escorts. I've done this but I came to the conclusion that it hardened me.
Maybe that's what you mean by being resistant to oneitis and if so then it's true. But oneitis seems to be related to an ability to love and feel genuine affection. Perhaps that's a silly affectation given women's incapacity to love the way men do. Still, I think it's a lot more fun to get it from a non-professional. It's certainly more validating. That said, I highly recommend sex tourism in Mexico. All strip clubs are brothels. Find the hottest women dancing and pay for a half hour with her.
You can find some very high quality looking women even in dusty border towns like Nuevo Laredo. I've been there many times as a truck driver and it's a whoremonger's paradise. I'm planning on returning again soon but probably not until this fall or winter since is so hot right now. Still, it's hot now and that mean's things are a lot cheaper.
It's a trade off. I'm not sure if it has hardened me, but I come away from a session feeling very loose, especially if there was a massage during that time as well. I have felt genuine love and affection after many years of using escorts. Unfortunately, these feelings reduced my alpha traits and stimulated beta traits.
I foresee long years for myself with many different escorts. On a whole i agree with your post, i used my first escort just over two months ago at Granted it was a shit experience because there was fuck all chemistry, she could barely speak english Romanian and had a roided bodyguard in the kitchen downstairs so i couldn't walk out without getting killed.
I would use one again but most escorts a don't want to deal with young clients and b don't want to see black men. Same two problems I have. It's not as bad since I'm I lost my virginity to an escort a few years ago. I always told myself it would be a one time thing. So far, it has. I still have urges to get laid, I just spend my money on other shit so I guess I'm not that desperate.
I will say, however, in the US its illegality exposes you to some high risks that are, in my opinion, not worth it for an hour of sex. It is a SMV lowering event. It could ruin you if anyone found out. The OP makes some valid points, however I get all the same benefits as he gets from hooking, from plating. Yeah I would be so far in debt. I have had plates fuck me, bring me food, play with my dick for hours while they watch tv, stay in my apartments as "fuck slaves" for a weekend just because they wanted it, and all sorts of other weird ass shit.
All it cost me is about 5 hours in the gym a week, a descent wardrobe and diet, some social skills and the other lessons I learned from here. A lot of posts on here swear by escorts, like they swear by lifting. Buying hookers is not self improvement. If you cant get girls, get hookers. I can get girls, and while I am not insinuating OP cannot, I am saying he thinks he found an easier way, but we all know there is no easy way to lift a heavy weight, just that you have to lift.
I've done this many times as well. Whatever suits you best. I just love having the service my way with extremely low possibility of drama or wasted time. I was thinking about making such a post since I hadn't found such informative posts, but this was better than I would have made. I was born and raised in America, and I also find the outrage to be not only silly but hypocritical and based on insecurities. The reason you were repulsed is that these women were actual whores, with a higher N count than you could pay to achieve.
The mods found it appropriate to allow it to remain here. I'd suggest you take your 'morals' and that's the only conclusion I can draw from your post, that you disapprove morally of escorts, elsewhere. This is not a human relationship, as such you are literally fucking whores and paying them money.
This is not a healthy attitude to have towards life either, relationships, with anyone not just women, are a two way street, you both have to give and you both have to recieve, with an actual whore yes you are giving her money for sex, but this is not a relationship because it ends the moment you have sex, any whore who would try to marry or love you, is likely only doing so as a conditioned response for survival, and the fact she wants to leave the CC.
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We should get exactly what we want out of a relationship and nothing unwanted. Get her out of your mind with an escort. Shopping around to find out what you really like Safe sex. Want to add to the discussion? This, can never be stressed enough. I think it would amaze a lot of people. D Digits - Fingers in vagina which can spread bacteria infections. Doggy Style - man behind girl, penis in vagina. With her legs spread - she is in the shape of a Y.
DP - Double Penetration. When a woman is penetrated in both an anal and vaginal fashion, at the same time. DT - Deep Throat. DDE - Does not do extras. Dato - Dining at the O. E Erotic Sensual Massage - a body rub massage that is intended to sexually stimulate the receiver. F FS - full service. Refers to an escort providing a full sex service. FE - female ejaculation during orgasm. Also referred to as squirting. Fetish - Having an extreme fixation, usually sexually satisfying on something.
Fire and Ice - giving oral sex and switching between hot tea and cold ice cube. FK - French kissing, tongue kissing. French - oral sex, fellatio.
Fisting - the penetration of the whole hand inside the vagina or anus. Foot Fetish - a pronounced sexual interest and gratification in feet or shoes. G GS - Golden Shower. The act of urinating on another person, usually for sexual gratification, or as a way of humiliation. Greek - Anal Sex. GFE - girlfriend experience. A very intimate service, where the escort is more like a girlfriend.
May include such services as sex, french kissing and mutual oral sex. H Happy Ending - hand job after massage. HJ - hand job. Sexually stimulating the penis by hand. Half and Half - Oral sex and intercourse. HR - Hand Release.
I Italian - rubbing penis between the buttocks. M Mutual French - Both parties will give and reciprocate oral sex. Can be performed by use of fingers, hands, an object, or a sex toy. Describes a sexually attractive female, usually several years older than the person using the term. MFF - male female female. A threesome with one man and two women. MMF - male male female. A threesome with two men and one woman. Multiple Positions - an escort who allows you to have sex in many different styles and positions.
MSOG - multiple shots on goal. An escort providing MSOG service will allow a client to orgasm multiple times. Mutual Natural French - both parties give and receive unprotected oral sex.
Missionary - Man on Top. NR - Nude Reverse. O Oral Sex - The act of two persons using their mouths to perform sexual intercourse. The practise of giving oral sex without the use of a condom, resulting in cim. A sexual encounter that is very similar to what you would see in a pornographic film.
Involves a wide range of sexual positions and tends to be very hardcore. Punter - the client or customer of an escort. Prostate Massage - the massage or stimulation of the male prostate gland by anal penetration, for sexual stimulation. Sometimes referred to as the male G-spot. PNDP - Please, no dick pics.
Pearls - Pearl Necklace. Ejaculation on her upper breasts... The OP makes some valid points, however I get all the same benefits as he gets from hooking, from plating. I'm planning on returning again soon but probably not until this fall or winter since is so hot right. Have you actually had throat gonorrhea out of interest? Use them safely and shop around to suit your needs. All strip clubs are brothels.
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